Classmate Updates

Eddie Marion

Marital status: Widowed
Children: 3
Occupation: Recruiting Director
Comment: As you may remember, I was fortunate enough to receive an appointment to the US Military Academt at West Point.  After graduating as a 2LT in 1967, I served with the Army in Germany, Viet Nam and the Pentagon.  A week after graduation, I married an Italian girl from New Jersey.  We had 3 kids - 2 boys and a girl  (Brennan, Andre & Michaela).  Sadly, our marriage ended after 20 years (1987), but I was firmly planted in New Jersey by then.





Three years later in 1990, I married a wonderful woman named Sue (another Italian girl from New Jersey).  Sue was the "Love of my Life" and we had 18 wonderful years together.  Sue and I shared every part of our lives from yard/garden work, Army football games, country & western line dancing to teaching Children's Church and serving in our local Baptist church (Sue as Church treasurer and me as Sunday School Leader and Church Trustee).  Yes, there are some good Baptist churches in New Jersey...





Tragically, Sue was diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer in Feb 2007 and after 2 surgeries, numerous chemo regimes and a courageous fight, she lost her battle with cancer on Dec 3, 2008.  I know she is in heaven now and is not in pain or suffering, but her death severly tested my faith and left a huge hole in my heart.  Currently, I am the AWANA Commander of the youth (K to 6th Grade) program at our church with some 60+ kids and 20 adult and teen leaders.  In addition, I serve on the Board of the local Salvation Army and assisted in building a shelter for homeless men, many of whom are Viet Nam vets.





Five of Sue's siblings, 16 nieces and nephews, and my 3 children and 3 grand children all live within a 2 hours radius of me, so you understand why I am stuck in New Jersey.  I would love to return to North Carolina, but all my family ties are here in NJ.  I try to make one or two trips to North Carolina every year to vist one aging aunt and some cousins as well as Bill & Katherine Petree, Ken Dawson and Chip Morgan.





On the career front, after getting out of the Army in 1971, I was hired by Johnson & Johnson (1971-1976) and became involved with logistics, transportation and physical distribution.  In 1976, I accepted a position as a Distribution Manager in New York City, went to night school at Fordham Ujiversity to earn an MBA and became VP Operations for Saxon Paper-NY (1976-1982).  Saxon Corp. declared bankruptcy in 1982 and I moved on to work for L'Oreal of Paris back in New Jersey.  My tenure with L'Oreal was 14 years (1982-1996) and I became the AVP of Operations & Distribution responsible for all their customer service and distribution centers through the entire US.  In 1996, I accepted what I thought would be a great position with Kodak in Durham, NC. Unfortunately my boss turned out to be unbearable and after 18 months we returned to New Jersey, where Sue's job as Corp Tax Director for L'Oreal was still open.  I worked as a stock broker for Prudential and a consultant before landing the best job of my life - Director of Operations for the Make-A-Wish Foundation of NJ. What an opportunity I had to help the families of critically ill and dying kids - so rewarding to give them a wish that the families could remember and cherish for ever.  I would still be there, except for the new president, brought in in 2003, who decided to get rid of everyone over 50 so he could build  his own team.  Since then, I have been working as a consultant and a recruiter for a small company owned by another West Point graduate called Academy Associates & Recruiters.  The job market is terrible and I have not made a placement in 3 years, but it gave me the opportinity to work from home and to be with Sue 24/7 during all chemo and other treatments.  This spring and summer, I worked for the US CENSUS Bureau which proved to not only be interesting and challenging, but also fun and exciting.  Now I am back in my recruiting role.





I am really excited about this reunion and am anxiously looking forward to seeing everyone.  I have not seen most of you since our last reunion in '93?!?  You probably don't remember, but I love to dance and hope we have some good 'ole 60's music to "boogie to".  Since I am alone, I will need some of you single ladies to fill up my "dance card".  Who knows, maybe I will find romance at our reunion!





Many thanks to the committee and all of you who have made this reunion possible.  I know you have worked hard and I appreciate it very much....

Marsha Marion (Sams)

Marital status: Married
Children: 2
Occupation: retired artist/teacher
Comment:



After Reynolds, I graduated from Converse College in Spartanburg, SC with a major in studio art and taught art for several years at the elementary and junior high level.





Mike Thrift and I were married in 1968 and have two daughters, Allyson and Amy. We lived in Biloxi, MS, Aiken, SC, Greenville, NC and back to Winston-Salem in 1976. We were divorced in the early 80's, and I went back to school at Guilford Tech for an Associate Degree in Graphic Design, (I graduated again in '87, with my girls at my side, exactly 20 years after my first degree.)





While raising the two girls (and a few Shih Tzu doggies,) I worked in Interior Design, Graphic Design (ad agency and corporate) and taught art in both public and private schools. For many years, I've taught art classes in my home studio to both children and adults. 


 


Who said "Old age is for Sissies?" My mid-life adventures have included "section hiking" the Appalachian Trail with friends (we've covered GA, NC, TN, and most of VA.,) traveling to some awesome places and scuba diving . . . yes, with sharks.





In 1992, several of us RJR gals reconnected and reminisced as we spent some time together at the beach. We have made it an annual event to get together, and it has been such a blessing to rekindle our friendships. 




 




Ten years ago we suffered the tragic loss of our oldest daughter, Allyson, due to a sudden brain aneurysm. She was working in Seattle counseling teen-agers. Our younger daughter, Amy lives  in Chattanooga with her husband, Drew, Jonathan (10), Salem (7) and Owen (3).  All grandchildren are adopted (Jonathan and Owen from Chattanooga and Salem from China) and, as you can imagine, are the loves of my life.







I've been back in Winston-Salem for the past 42 years. At our last reunion (50th) I re-connected with Ed Marion and we began "long distance" dating since he lived in New Jersey. We were married in June of 2015 and are happily living here in Winston-Salem . . .  I certainly discovered the advantage of attending these reunions!   :)   . . . Now I have 2 more grandchildren to love and spoil. Ed's son, Brennan and his wife, Jenny live in Pennsylvania with their 2 girls, Piper (13) and Talula (6).





I am enjoying the luxury of total retirement from teaching art in the public schools but am still enjoying teaching a few children and adult art classes in my home. I am blessed to have a little extra time to pursue my passion for painting. I have worked in many media, but most of my recent work is in pastel and oil. You may check it out on my website, www.marshathrift.com and link to my blog.





In my spare (?) time, I enjoy walking, yoga and Zumba Gold (wouldn't Mr. Mayer be impressed?) . . . photography, scrapbooking, painting, and (last but certainly not least,) my grandchildren.





I am so looking forward to our reunion in October. Thanks to all of you who are making it possible. 

Janet Mathis (Haynes)

Children: 2

Jane McCown (Graham)

Marital status: Married
Children: 2
Occupation: Retired educator
Comment: I spent my first 2 years in college at Mars Hill and graduated


from Appalachian State in 1967.I taught first grade in Gastonia,


NC,for 3 years. It was there that another teacher introduced me


to her nephew,who was just returning from Germany,after spending


4 years in the Army.Five months later we were married,and


celebrated our 40th anniversary last August. We lived in


Anderson,SC,Jerry's hometown for 3 years,as he returned to


school,and I taught first,and later,third grade. Our daughter,


Jennifer,was born there.After Jerry graduated from Furman,


we moved to Jefferson,GA,for his job.Our son,Graham,was born


a few years later. After teaching 4th and 5th grade for the


last 27 years of my career,I retired in 2002. I continued to


teach half-days,until I decided I no longer wanted to set the


alarm. It is nice to roll over as the school bus passes my


bedroom window at 6:45 AM! We have a 17 year-old grandson who


still enjoys visiting us,thank goodness. I spend my time reading,


eating out with friends, taking a couple of beach trips a year,


and yes,I confess,Facebooking. Hope to see lots of great


pictures of the reunion!

jeff miller

Marital status: Married
Children: 1
Occupation: optometrist
Comment:

After RJR, I went to Emory University in Atlanta where I started the campus radio station, and continued with my interest in sound and lighting. I got my doctorate in Phildelphia at Salius University. I worked in radio & TV since I have a first class FCC l license. I was sound director for the Dick Clark show.





I was the last doctor drafted and served in USAF as chief optometrist at Charleston AFB. I certified pilots to fly, worked in ER, and certified base safety. My play time was in C5's and C141's.


 


Coming back to WS, I joined my father's practice which he started in 1938.





My daughter Leigh is getting her doctorate from Emory University and lives with husband and grandchild in Portland OR.  Kacie lives with her husband in Denver CO where she is head of migratory birds for the state of Colorado. Even though she got her masters at Perdue, she is a true Hokie.





I served 12 years on the Forsyth County Board of Health and 10 years on the Board of the Nature Science Center. 





I own a software company that tracks health needs for the Head Start Program under the dept of HHS. 





My love of trains shows in my founding of the Southbound Model Railroaders and I am reponsible for the building of the club at South Fork Park. From 1973-1993, I was responsible for the steam train trips out of WS. I have written railroad history books and magazine articles.





Professionally I am a member of all major optometric organizations and was elected to Fellowship in the American Academy of Optometry. I still work every day seeing patients !





One of my biggest accomplishments was helping Sarah Johnson in defeating Walmart store placement on Reynolda Rd. Our motto was "Don't Mess with 63'

Kay Modlin (Cockerham)

Marital status: Single again
Children: 2
Occupation: Retired School Counselor
Comment: After graduating from RJR, I attended Meredith College and worked there in the Admissions Office for a couple of years after earning my degree in 1967.  In 1969, I married and moved to Baton Rouge, Louisiana, where my two sons were born.  After seven years in Louisiana, we moved back to Raleigh where I have continued to live.  My former husband and I divorced in 1990.  Both my sons have settled in Raleigh - my older son was a civil engineer who gave up that profession to follow his passion for cooking.  He is now one of the chef owners at Globe in Raleigh.  My younger son (also a Civil Engineer) is married and the father of a son (age 4) and a daughter (age 1).  As many of you, I am sure, I have dealt with the ups and downs of life.....my biggest challenge has been living with Parkinson's Disease with which I was diagnosed in 1996.  My greatest joy has been watching my children and now my grandchildren grow and mature. I enjoy reading, spending time with friends, and growing roses. Many thanks to the Reunion Committee for providing this forum for us to catch up with our classmates.

Ed Pagett

Marital status: Married
Children: 2
Occupation: REALTOR
Comment:

After RJR, I attended UNC. I was probably the last one to be accepted in my class; and Ms. Edwards told me I’d better sit on the front row! Well, I did and graduated in ‘67 with a BS in Business Administration. While my grades were decent, the time I spent cleaning up after roommate Bill Benton probably kept me from reaching my full potential. His mom always told me that Bill should pay me 10% of his wages for life for my custodial efforts, but it hasn't happened yet. Maybe I'm in his will?


After Chapel Hill, I did my obligatory five years in the Army, including one tour in Viet Nam. Arriving home, I was met at the airport by Alan Cameron's girlfriend/my future wife - Thanks Alan! Of course I waited to make my move until after Cherie and Alan had stopped dating – and we’ve been happily married and living in Alexandria, VA for 39 years. We have two wonderful children, Zachary, 32 and Shantry, 26 and one granddaughter, Coryell, 2, who thinks her "Boppa" is the coolest.



After the Army, I received an MS in Real Estate and Urban Planning from American University in Washington, DC. (still sitting on the first row, Ms. Edwards) and have been involved in real estate ever since, actively participating in the REALTOR Association, serving as president of my local and state associations.



As Cherie and I move closer to retirement, we are spending more time at our "retirement" home in Florida and our condo on the Costa del Sol in Spain. (Cherie studied in Madrid in 1966 and we have been going back for over forty years.)



Besides travel, I have been actively swimming for years, including an annual  4.4 mile swim across the Chesapeake Bay from 1996-2006. In 2007, I walked a 530-mile pilgrimage route across northern Spain (El Camino de Santiago) in memory of our Spanish Godson, Alvaro who was killed in a car accident in Spain in 1997, just three weeks after graduating from high school in the US with our son Zachary, and having lived with us for the previous two years. A pilgrim's prayer that served me on The Camino and which I have continued to pray every day since:


Guide me on my way this day. Keep me safe from harm. Deepen my relationship with you, your earth and all its people. Strengthen your love within me that I may be a presence of peace in your world.


We are blessed with reasonably good health and pray it continues for all of us. I am looking forward to seeing all my classmates after these many years. I was so disappointed we didn't have a 40th reunion, so my thanks go out to the Planning Team for making this event possible.

Engwall/Gary Pahr-Iverson

Marital status: Married
Children: 4
Occupation: Journalist
Comment:  

My year as an exchange student at Reynolds in Winston-Salem – among the Moravians and the pine trees - is a period in my life that I still look back upon with great pleasure and gratitude. I enjoyed thoroughly meeting you all.


 


I have been back to Winston-Salem once – a very short visit, some 20 years ago – where I managed – an early Sunday morning - to find my way to R. J. Reynolds school - as well as to the 1028 South Hawthorne Road where I stayed with the Bell-family. ( I have been visiting the US quite a few times during the years gone. Most of my longer stops, however, have been in the Atlanta or the Phoenix area, where I still have close relatives, cousins etc... On working- and study-trips, I have had primarily a base with the Gannet-chain of newspapers in White Plains and the Philadelphia Inquirer.)


 


I have spent my working life in the mass media. I graduated from The Norwegian School of Journalism in 1966, and up to 1973, I worked as a reporter. Between the years '73 and  '91 – I had the position of a editor-in-chief of different newspapers around the country (the last 11 years in my hometown Stavanger) – and from '92 on, I`ve been hosting a daily, two hour long talk show on the national radio, Norwegian Broadcasting Corporation. (My first radio appearance was by the way, at the WTOB in Winston-Salem.....)


 


In between, I have been teaching journalism at university level both in Norway and Sweden, and writing several books on local history etc. (I checked myself on the Norwegian Wikipedia and found that they have been counting most of my books....)


 


I hope to be able to join the reunion – I have a little problem though, a Norwegian oilwell-service-company will be celebrating an anniversary and presenting a book – which I have written – about the reunion-time. At the moment they haven`t set the exact time for the presentation, so I cross my fingers and toes.....


 


Stavanger – my hometown and where I now live, is the center of the Norwegian oil industry. Oil companies from all over the world have their head offices for their activities in the North Sea located in the Stavanger-area. We therefore have an American school – from 1 to 12 th grade – an English school, a French etc. Since Phillips found oil in the late sixties, the old canning town has turned into quite an international arena.


 


I am married, we have 4 kids ( in their mid-late 30 to early 40 – but still kids...) and 7 grandchildren, ranging from  8 to 14 years. 


 


(I dont have many pictures of myself, so I enclose one from an article in a newspaper the day I bid my radio listeners good bye.... )


 


We`ll keep in touch. When I left Winston-Salen midsummer '63, we weren`t allowed to enter the US till at least 2-3 years after we had returned to our homes; we shouldn`t become Americans, but stay and study in our home countries, the AFS-organisation had decided.... Knowing that, I felt that I couldn`t get to close to anybody in those days, however, you all are all still joining me on my trips down memory lane....


 


Hope to see you all


 


Engwall/Gary


 
















 Photo to be added:




Engwall Pahr-Iversen slutter i Formiddagslokalen:


En radiolegende takker for seg


I dag erklærte radio-legenden Engwall Pahr-Iversen at nok er nok. Straks klokka slo 13.00, slo han av Formiddag-slokalens mikrofon og vandret nysgjerrig ut i pensjonisttilværelsen.


 


Soula Pope (Russos)

Occupation: retired nurse
Comment: I recently retired from nursing at Baptist Hospital.  I have two birth children and two stepchildren - and six grandchildren!  I am enjoying my free time reading, traveling, and rooting for UNC.  I volunteer at the Shepherd's Center, taking clients to doctors' appointments.  You may remember me as "Sue" but all my friends and family have always called me "Soula" (pronounced "Sue-La"). 

Rosemary Pulliam (Greenwood)

Marital status: Married
Children: 2
Occupation: Designer
Comment:

After Reyholds,  I graduated from Wake Forest with a teacher's  certificate and a degree in history.  While there, I married my high school sweetheart, Robert Pulliam.  Consequentley, I was fulfilling my dreams of "playing house", being a wife and mother.  We have been married 46 years and have two children.


   Our daughter, Anne lives just a couple of miles from our house.  She and her husband have three children - our precious grandchildren.  She graduated from Meredith with an accounting degree, and after she became involved in my building business, she went back to school and earned an architectural design degree.  She has a full family life, but also enjoys designing residential and commericial projects.


   Our son Bob graduated from Davidson with a degree in Math.  He worked for several years with Anderson Consulting before moving to Seattle  as a Developer for Microsoft.  He truly loves it.  


    I have always been very involved in many volunteer activities - community, the kids schools, church, the arts and fund raising.  Through these, I developed my organizational and management skills.  The year that Anne left fro Meredith, Bob moved to Boston to attend Prep School.  This enabled me to embark on my first career - designing and building houses.  We have designed, built, furnished and sold 9 high end homes on the NC coast.  Each home is totally different, so each one is a unique creation.  Eventhough this has fulfilled my dream of playing house, it also has provided  for friends and new acquaintances a relaxing retreat right on the beach.


   Robert and I have enjoyed  spending time working and relaxing at the beach, but we also  love traveling.  We have made several trips to different countries in Europe.  I will go back to France or London any time.  Robert loves to fish in Alaska.  He wants Africa to be our next trip - we will see!!!!!


   During the last year, it has been a delight to have the Reunion Planning meetings at our home.  It has been a wonderful opportunity to re-live and remember RJR times, but also to reconnect and share life's experiences.  I hope everyone will come amd help celebrate.  Its so good reconnecting.